Porn or No Porn?

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Porn or No Porn?

Naked French maids with whips and chains; librarians caressing the Lesbian Sex Book; drunken college girls gone wild for each other — does any of this turn women on? In theory, I suppose it should. And while it is in my head, the fantasy is riveting and intoxicating; in seconds, I am wild with excitement, and if I am with company, the possibilities are endless. But the on-screen dramatization of such fantasies leave me drier than a Sahara summer day.

For days now I’ve been investigating the matter of porn — well, investigating might be too dishonest a term — but I have been googling and googling and googling different word-combinations to ascertain exactly what is out there. And what I have found is that most of the sex on film in the world is geared towards a male audience.

Sometimes it’s gay men, sometimes it’s the frat boy and his father, but most of it completely ignores what may or may not cause a woman, lesbian or straight, to toss aside her p-style, or her curling iron and reach for her dildo or her Hitachi (if she has one) or her trusty best-friend-with-benefits.

I mean, even the ones that claim to be girl on girl action is really a bunch of aspiring playboy bunnies trying to get the male audience to believe they are younger than they are. (And don’t get me started on our ageist culture, which values youth so much, that soon we will be masturbating to images of zygotes in thongs!) Frankly, the only kind of porn that tends to get a rise (if you’ll pardon the awful and less than appropriate pun) out of me is gay male porn — and if it’s S &M it can’t be interracial either.

I like my power dynamics at the minimal. The man on man stuff allows me to take my own body — historically, racially and with respect to gender — out of the sexual dynamics. Two white men beating on each other doesn’t offend me as much as a white man beating on a Black girl. To tell you the truth, the white boy spanking the Chinese girl in school uniform is mad offensive to me too.

But I digress, the point I am making is, the un-considered race stuff in porn makes me think of slavery, especially with all those whips and chains and gruff orders and kneeling and forced sexual activity—no, I like everybody in the porn flick to be the same race. I may be able to watch some heterosexual stuff, but it has to be very carefully directed. (Did I just write that? Somehow I don’t think nuance, i.e. the art or politics of over-the-counter porn is a matter of great concern to the producers.)



Comments [24]

taylor3890's picture

websites to try

crashpadseries.com and gooddykeporn.com are pay sites, but well worth it, I think.  I prefer crashpadseries.com, though.  More videos to look through.

also, if you want it for free, go to redtube.com and browse through the lesbian videos.  most are pretty terrible, but there are a few where the women actually appear to be enjoying themselves (a lot in some of the videos.)  you will have to search a bit, though.

Grace Moon's picture

only ever seen crashpad

where is gooddykeporn made? SF?

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taylor3890's picture

it is based in canada

but i am unsure if the scenes are shot elsewhere.  it's worth taking a look, i think : )

Not2Taem's picture

Send her to Diana

Laughing out loud

Tex's picture

Really?

Is Cage making porn?  Smile

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Lake's picture

If she is....

I might get my "porn mo-jo" back!!!!  WooHoo!!! Wink

Lake

Tex's picture

Lakey!

You know, sweets, it's just wrong for a little girl to be talking about porn!!!  Smile

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Lake's picture

SOOOOOOO....

True.....Wink

Lake

Rusty's picture

thud

thud

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna

Tex's picture

Yep

thud

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Lake's picture

Can we...

talk porn now????  Wink

Lake

Not2Taem's picture

Skip the talking

Let's get right to filming.

Lake's picture

SWEEEEEEEEETTTTTTT!!!!

LOL!!!!

Lake

Tex's picture

uhhhh, wellll, uhhhh

I thhhink I'mmmm blinded by the ssiiii ssssight!

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Lake's picture

You can ...

Feel your way around......Wink

Lake

Not2Taem's picture

Scene 1

The shower  Wink

Lake's picture

LOL!!!

Wink

Lake

Rusty's picture

Christian porn

I wish I'd saved the comments from OC the night we stayed up and wrote Christian Porn. Lisa Parish found a link to a site that provided porn for teh Christian married couples. Mojopo wrote some insanely heretical stuff and we all joined in. Good times.

Grace mentioned THAT anniversary coming up so this is a "fun" link with an interview Grace did with Lisa a couple of years ago.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gx-93edA-9U

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will." ~ Pollyanna

Joanne Robertson's picture

Hope that tatt was a stick on haha

awww ... they were talking about OC with such hope in the air Innocent

I do miss the Q & A with Kate & Leisha.  They should do that again (even without TLW to plug) ... they were highly entertaining together.

I always thought Kate & Leisha would be perfect for doing those little soundbites on the E! specials Laughing out loud

Grace Moon's picture

it all

seems so ironic now!

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Lake's picture

LOL!!!!

Loved the youtube....Wink

Lake

Tex's picture

Nice cap!

Hook 'em horns!

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Not2Taem's picture

We can hope

Tongue

Tex's picture

EVERYONE START LOOKING

"Otherwise, I will be forced to give up the idea of porn altogether, proving that the fundamentalist Christians are right when they say sex is bad, unless it is done in the dark, and never spoken of or filmed or explored in the way we explore all the other aspects of being human."

We have got to find something to get such thoughts out of her brain!  Wink

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